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Why 72% of adults surveyed prefer their living room to nightlife
NEW YORK — Remember when Friday nights meant getting dressed up and hitting the town? Those days might be fading into memory, as a fresh social shift takes hold across America. A recent survey reveals that most Americans now prefer the comfort of their living rooms to the buzz of nightlife venues.
When asked to choose, nearly three-quarters of Americans (72%) would rather stay home with friends than go out, while only 28% still prefer venturing out for social activities. This dramatic shift in social behavior has happened quickly, with half of respondents saying their preference changed in just the past few years.
The nationwide survey of 2,000 Americans conducted by Talker Research and commissioned by Air Wick explores how our homes have become the new hot spots for weekend fun.
Home Sweet Social Hub
What’s behind this homebody revolution? Cost savings play a big role, with 53% of survey participants citing money as a key factor. But it’s not just about pinching pennies.
People also appreciate being able to hear conversations better (47%), avoiding crowded places (47%), controlling their environment (42%), and skipping formal attire (24%). The comfort factor ranks highest, with 65% saying home simply feels better for socializing.
Creating that perfect home atmosphere takes work, though. Survey participants reported spending anywhere from 10 minutes to over two hours prepping for guests, with the average being about two hours and 10 minutes.
The Sensory Home
Smell has emerged as a surprisingly important factor in home entertaining. A strong majority (78%) believe scent transforms how welcoming a space feels, and 82% think about how their home smells before inviting people over.
“With more Americans opting for home gatherings, it’s clear that comfort, meaningful connections and subtle touches like a pleasant home fragrance or ambient lighting are becoming the new priorities for socializing,” notes Julia Mellberg, a spokesperson for Air Wick. “These survey results highlight how hosting at home allows consumers to create an environment reflecting their personal style and be always inviting, no matter the occasion.”
When choosing scents for spring and summer hosting, Americans favor fresh and clean fragrances (64%), followed by warm and cozy scents (45%), and floral options (36%).
Deeper Connections
The study suggests home gatherings foster more genuine interaction. Nearly three-quarters of respondents (74%) feel they have more meaningful conversations during nights in compared to outings.
What are people discussing during these home gatherings? Family updates and personal life details lead the conversation topics (69%), followed by gossip (44%) and news or politics (35%). The sweet spot for these home get-togethers? About three hours and 24 minutes – long enough for meaningful exchange but not so long that it becomes tiresome.
Birthday celebrations top the list of preferred at-home events (49%), with dinner parties coming in second (44%). Movie nights (37%), game nights (35%), and TV watch parties (29%) round out the top five choices for home entertaining.
Keys To Successful Home Gatherings
What makes for a successful night in? Survey respondents identified seven key elements: good food and drinks (72%), the right people (61%), comfortable seating (52%), a clean, welcoming space (46%), quality music or entertainment (38%), pleasant scents (24%), and cozy lighting (22%).
Setting the right mood matters too. About half (49%) of respondents said creating the right vibe and incorporating home fragrance are essential for making guests feel welcome.
Despite the perks, home hosting comes with its own challenges. The top stressors include cleaning (46%), cooking (34%), ensuring guest comfort (26%), perfectionism pressure (25%), and running out of refreshments (23%).
Other common concerns include having enough seating (20%), staying within budget (19%), guests overstaying (15%), managing children or pets (14%), home fragrance (13%), and worrying about judgment (13%).
Less common but still notable stressors include managing social dynamics (12%), planning entertainment (12%), potential spills (11%), creating the right ambiance (11%), and handling cancellations (7%).
Cultural Shift or Temporary Trend?
This migration from public to private spaces for socializing represents a notable change in American habits. With nearly half of respondents saying this shift happened recently, we may be witnessing a lasting transformation in how people connect.
The timing coincides with several societal factors: rising costs for dining and entertainment, a growing appreciation for more personal connections, and perhaps a lingering post-pandemic comfort with home-centered activities.
This migration from public venues to private spaces represents a notable change in American social habits that could impact how we connect with one another and affect businesses that have traditionally served as gathering spots.
Methodology
Talker Research surveyed 1,000 general population respondents and 1,000 people who host regularly. Air Wick commissioned the survey, which was conducted online between March 25-31, 2025. The research used traditional online access panels and programmatic methods from a non-probability frame. Respondents received points with small cash-equivalent value for completing the survey. Analysis only included cells with at least 80 respondents, with statistical significance calculated at 95% confidence. Quality control measures excluded speeders, irrelevant responses, bots (via Captcha), and duplicates (using digital fingerprinting). The survey was limited to internet users, which may affect its generalizability.
I feel like it’s a post-Covid realization: During that time, we spent less money on “going out” to socialize. Jump ahead only a few years to this time of economic stress: it’s easy to look at that model as a proven track record for saving $, so people are emulating it/continuing the same behaviors.
Something notably missing is any mention of the fact that the average American residence contains far more luxury entertainment items than it did even 20 or 30 years ago. From full home bars, to widescreen/surround-sound home theater setups, to full outdoor grill stations and firepit living areas, to hot tubs and resort style pools, even in average apartment communities. There are just far less entertainment outlets that require leaving the home.
About 30% are 21-30 so, 70% are either too young, too poor or too smart (older) to want to go out with the costs and risks associated.
Baby Boomers went through this stage, us Gen X’ers went through this stage and now Millennials are going through this stage. Nothing new, except this time everyone needs to know it because it’s the Millennials. These are simply normal stages of growing up. Once people reach that age when family takes priority, then spending money frivolously goes away.
Nowadays, going out risks getting killed. Stay home and live vs go out and die. Not many other options.
I think I’ve seen less over-acting out of William Shatner. We get it. You’re frightened of literally EVERYTHING. Do the rest of us a favor that aren’t paranoid babies. Stay home. You’d be a turd in the punch bowl anyway.
Once a week I am obligated to leave my home, and it is the worst day of the week. If I didn’t have to, I would never leave. Humans are on the downside, and I prefer my own company and that of my cat, over the masses of asses any. day.
LOL’z it’s cost prohibitive to go out… too damn expensive.
Diversity in the US has hit a critical mass and their is no longer a unifying culture. The Netflix CEO claimed movie theaters are dead. It is for the same reason. Do we quietly watch a movie and laugh when appropriate? Do we talk through the whole movie? Do we bring our infants to a rated R movie at 9PM? Do we leave tips in restaurants? Do we wait patiently in line until it is our turn, or do we bully our way to the the front. Do we blast music from our phones on public transportation or do we respect the space of others. Anything goes in the USA, and people are just staying home.
Absolutely correct!
Dude are you like 25 years old, every single issue you mentioned was an issue 30-40 years ago.
^This!
I personally think the DWI was has been won and NO ONE can afford the tens of thousands of dollars to pay for one. At one time DWI was a multi-billion dollar industry. Just stay home, let friends sleep over.
Uber and Lyft are available most places. Especially if you’re in a metro area.
When I go out, I can’t choose the people around me. I’d rather mingle with my pets than humans at this point in the Idiocracy timeline. I have get togethers with my friends at my home, so when the party ends, it ends.
Ex military and retired law enforcement here..stay home with family and friends..you are better off..humanity is on the decline.
Thank you for your service(s). And it’s true, humans are de-evolving into mindless narcissists who take selfies to feel relevant. No thanks.